Is your husband cheating? This is your first clue
When you’ve been with someone for a long time, it’s easy to figure out if they are cheating on you or not because you know them so well. But sometimes women are married to cheating husbands for decades without realizing it because they don’t actually know their husbands as well as they thought they did. When I first found out that my husband was cheating on me, I was incredibly shocked, but now that I can look back and reminisce, the signs were there all along. If you want to stop wondering whether or not your husband is cheating, start paying attention to his actions and see if he’s begun to act differently than before.
If your husband is having an affair, he will hate surprises
When I first started suspecting my husband of having an affair, I wanted to know with who, where, why, and how as soon as possible and so I took the matter into my own hands. I knew that my husband worked with a large number of women, so I decided to surprise him at work in Fife, and scope out the place. Now, I knew that if my husband was having an affair with someone at his workplace he would absolutely hate it if I stopped by, so this is exactly what I did. I ordered him lunch, picked it up, and popped into his workplace for a surprise visit. Instead of being happy to see me and grateful for the lunch, my husband was immediately thrown off, nervous, and sweaty — this helped me realise that he was indeed messing around with someone at work.
Signs of a cheater: If he’s cheating he will do this
If you think your husband might be cheating on you, it is up to you to either play dumb or detective. If you would rather know if he’s being unfaithful, it is important to start paying attention to the signs of a cheater, as these signs will help you make your final decision. What helped me realise that my husband was cheating was his lack of sexual interest in me, his exhaustion, his withering romance, and his commitment to his work. Since most people are usually in a rush to get home from a 9-5 job, it is very dubious when a man starts working late or going on business trips.
Catch him in his lies
If you want to catch him in a lie, you need to start paying closer attention to his alibis and excuses. If he needs to work late on a certain project, make sure to ask him about the project the very next day, or even a week later. If your husband acts confused or inaccurate in his timelines, you can begin to catch him in his lies and get him to admit to cheating.
Spot out the other women in his life
If your husband is cheating on you, chances are he’s meeting other women off of an online dating website or at his place of work. To rule out one or the other, try snooping through his phone and checking for any online dating apps, or trying to see if he’s been texting someone from work. If you happen to find some unsettling texts from another woman, confront him about it.