Long distance and cheating
For most people, being involved in a long distance relationship is pretty much a nightmare. This is because long distance relationships have been known to fail miserably. When two lovers do not get the chance to talk and see each other every day, they might start feeling lonely and seeking attention elsewhere. Long distance and cheating have been known to go very well together, especially since it is very unlikely that your partner will find out about the affair since they won’t get to see you face-to-face — trust me, I learned this the hard way. When my partner moved to Tulsa for a year on a work contract, I knew deep down that there would come a time where they would stray, but what I didn’t know is that I would remain faithful while they cheated on me repeatedly.
First step to finding cheating in a long distance relationship
If you want to find out if your lover is cheating on you while they are abroad for a large period of time, the best thing to do is talk to them every day. By losing steady contact with your lover, you will immediately open up a window for cheating because your lover might think that you don’t care about them anymore. If you start calling your lover at night and they never answer you, chances are they are out and about with someone new who they can actually be intimate with. If you want to forgive your partner for their infidelity, read our guide on finding happiness after infidelity.
Is your partner having a long distance affair?
I knew that my partner was having a long distance affair in Tulsa because she stopped calling me to tell me about her day like she used to. This sudden change immediately let me know that she had found someone else to talk to and give her time to. Having a long distance affair is not as legit as it may seem, especially if you start acting differently than usual. To learn how to not get caught cheating, read this guide on the subject.
How to spot out cheating in a long distance relationship
Want to learn how to spot cheating in a long distance relationship? Well, it won’t be too hard if you make sure to pay attention to detail. When two lovers are apart, it is common for them to talk about how much they miss one another, both emotionally and sexually. If your lover stops telling you how much they want you over the phone, chances are they have found someone else to fulfill their needs.
Why long distance relationships hardly ever work out
When I found out that my lover would be leaving me for half a year, I instantly knew that our relationship was over. This is because long distance relationships never work out and usually end up with someone cheating on each other. Sure, there are some exceptions but not everyone is one hundred percent in love with their partners, and sometimes being apart allows them to realise how much they enjoy being single. Long distance relationships can work out, but it is important to be able to spot out the signs of cheating before committing to one.